YOUR DRY VAGINA COULD BE…. THE CULPRIT FOR YOUR MURDERED SEX LIFE

Sexual Relationship: Sex is something which every couple looks forward to after a long day or better yet when the libido is at peak. But what happens when you are just not in the mood? Or worse, it’s painful so you refrain from having it all together. Let’s find out what exactly is lowering your libido or why you’re not able to enjoy it, while your friends are enjoying it like a cup of chai ( the more, the better ) ;)

• Negative opinion of sex

This is one of the most complex sexual problems. The reasons can vary from individual to individual. A person may feel that their partners aren’t attracted to them anymore. While the reason for lack of desire must be totally unexpected. Stress, exhaustion can be regarded as one of the reasons and can wreck your sex life. Similarly, a strict religious upbringing, fear of getting pregnant and negative opinion/experiences around sex must be putting havoc on your desire to have sex.

Even if your head and heart are in the right place, certain physical conditions such as diabetes, fibromyalgia and hormonal disorders can also kill your Sexual Relationship Desire.

This is what wrecked Mini Kapoor’s (names changed for privacy) relationship with her boyfriend. She was experiencing vaginal dryness and super low libido, which made sex painful and also lead to decline in the frequency to have sex. This took a direct hit on her relationship, ending her 2 year old relationship with her partner.

Finally, after a couple of visits to gynecologists, she got her sex life back on track, and rekindled her relationship with her boyfriend.

• Dryness in Vagina

Most people associate arousal with vaginal lubrication. However, it’s more than that. When a woman is aroused, more blood flows to the clitoris and its surrounding flesh causing the cervix to expand and thus your body gets ready to receive the penis. When a women isn’t aroused, the blood doesn’t flow, thus the body isn’t ready to receive a penis.

When a vagina is dry and uncomfortable, naturally it is not going to feel any stimulation. It could be because a woman is an emotional being and she tends to worry a lot about her family, kids, husband and what not.

• Anorgasmia

This condition can be characterized by the inability to reach an orgasm, being more common in women than men. In fact, according to a study published in a leading sexual health website, one out of three women have trouble reaching an orgasm during sex.

This could be due to a no. of medical problems such as diabetes, cervical cancer, multiple sclerosis, according to a leading study. Additionally, taking antidepressants also leads to women having problem peaking.

Or it could be because you don’t know how to have an orgasm or your partner isn’t doing foreplay  properly. To tackle this, it’s high time that you explore your body with your partner and find out all the sweet spots.

• Vaginismus

This condition is very common among women and causes the pelvic muscles to spasm and the vagina to involuntarily tighten, making the vaginal opening to stay closed and thus blocking the penis from entering.

The cause for this could be past UTIs, fear of sex, pregnancy or mental trauma from past physical abuse.

• Dyspareunia

This condition renders a woman to experience pain during or post intercourse which could be because of the tightening of vaginal muscles. The sad part is that many couples are embarrassed to sought help out of shame. Many couples fail to consummate their marriage also for years fearing shame in society which is not the right way to address this issue. This can also threaten the very foundation of your marriage, since sex is an important part of a couple’s relationship and long-term physical and wellbeing.

So, how to counter this and put the heat back between the sheets?

Personally, our experts feel sexual disorders should be evaluated holistically and not just one individual part.

• Kill the stress  - Maintain a healthy diet, exercise well maintain balance in your life.
• Try zzzzz sex – Take advantage of your body’s first sleep cycle, when your body is at peak arousal and schedule a lovemaking session with your partner, which will help you relax.
• Talk, Talk , Talk to your partner – Communicate well with your partner, about your likes, dislikes, insecurities because if you are not upfront about such things, negativity and insecurities can creep up in your relationship, which can lead to conflicts, and thereby affect your sex life!

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